Sometimes a new soul needs to practice with mom in building the vessel that will carry it for its life… and that co-creation doesn’t always go according to plan. There can be physical or other issues that would result in a lifetime of lessons and experiences that aren’t for the soul’s highest good.
Sometimes an incoming soul doesn’t quite get the timing right… an incoming soul hangs around mom (mostly, but dad too sometimes), and if the physical form begins before the parents or soul are ready, the soul and parents may opt to wait for a little while before all parties are more prepared.
Sometimes a soul has a desire to be born with a certain familial lineage, but in cases of rape, and even accidents, the soul may end up with a parent that they weren’t originally intending.
Sometimes humans don’t understand the difference between biological and spiritual life… biological life starts when it starts. Spiritual life starts at birth. The soul retains its choice to exit at any time during incubation, for whatever reason it chooses. It also retains its right to choose when that birth occurs, sometimes naturally, sometimes in co-creation with the parents and/or medical team. And sometimes not at all in the way in which it was originally planning.
Sometimes the soul works with mom, and sometimes with both parents, to decide what is best for all involved, and having healthy options to vacate is much better than a scenario where something more drastic or dangerous must happen to achieve the desired result to not be born at a certain time, or in a certain way.
Sometimes we need to consider that we ourselves may have attempted to be born before we actually were, and that the situation that we would have otherwise been born into may not have been the best for us. Sometimes we need to see that if your mother experienced a miscarriage before you were born, or decided, for any reason, that the pregnancy wasn’t desired or good, that that was more than likely you and her practicing for your actual birth. Sometimes we need to open to the idea that a soul will always persevere in one way or another, and that the highest potential for all involved is the ultimate intention.
Sometimes we need to learn that if our soul wasn’t born in the body we’re currently inhabiting, our soul would be here in a different body, through a different set of circumstances. Sometimes we need to realize that our soul’s choice to be here isn’t affected by any singular decision to terminate, for any reason, at any time. Sometimes we need to understand that any soul does not take personally any decision made by the parents… a soul doesn’t have the same rigid emotional body that we humans have, so it simply finds another way to come into the world.
Sometimes people can get triggered when they hear certain words… sometimes certain words have such an energy or belief to them and can sometimes even bring up emotions or trauma like abandonment, rejection, fear, doubt, or hatred.
Sometimes people feel like they might not be here, had their parental situation been even slightly different than what it was… and that can sometimes cause tremendous grief, sadness, rage, or judgment of others. Sometimes that can make someone want to take away the rights of others, as a way to satisfy the unsettled feelings or emotions they have.
Sometimes… sometimes we need to hold more compassion… a LOT more compassion… for each other. Sometimes we need to put ourselves in other people’s shoes. Sometimes we need to see beyond our own trauma, our own triggers, our own emotions, and see that others have those same issues too, and are simply experiencing them in a different way. Sometimes we need to remember that our dogma should never be forced on someone else or their family.
Always… ALWAYS… we must remember to respect each other, and honor spiritual free will and choice.
Sometimes that choice won’t make sense to us. Sometimes it will trigger unresolved issues. Sometimes it will challenge us, and make us uncomfortable. Sometimes it will test faith. Sometimes it will infuriate. Sometimes it will force growth within us, that we didn’t ask for.
Sometimes we need to realize that just because we wouldn’t make a certain choice ourselves, that that isn’t the best, or healthy, or necessary choice for someone else. And we need to always honor that choice.
